As we are approaching the last
days of December and after a few eye blinks will be in the year of 2019, I wanted
to do this quick post to outline my 2018 and make some few goals for the next
upcoming year. I think that goals are important because they help to set your
mind on things by giving a clear vision. Forget silly New Years’ resolutions –
I have never been about ‘eating clean’ or ‘not eating any chocolate’. As a
person I am perfectionistic and ambitious, I want to set myself SMART goals
that benefit me and the world around me.
2018 in a nutshell
In a nutshell, I felt like I was
on a wild rollercoaster of a ride during 2018. I started the year with a huge
stressful task of completing my dissertation. It was challenging; however, it
was fun too. I have learned about organization and to have a determined work
ethic no matter what.
In February, I celebrated a year
with my partner Ben. He is my rock, someone that always reminds me that I have
control in life, that I choose how to lead my life.
In 2018, I have also started to
be more open at work which resulted in me making some amazing friends. I am
forever grateful for them. Being a support worker always comes with a lot of
challenges, controlling your emotions in a stressful environment can get quite
tough. I am lucky that I have a fantastic network of colleagues at work. Tip
number 1 – use your social circles around you to keep you sane.
I turned 21 in April, fully
approaching adulthood. Talking about being an adult, I have also got a lovely
flat with Ben. The whole renting and deposit process was a bit of a nightmare,
after all it was our first time, we did not know what to expect. But the stress
was all worth it. I love to have my own little space.
I also have worked on my hobbies
a little, last few years I kept abandoning them because I was so stuck in
education. In 2018, I started painting, I tried pole-dancing (although right
now with Masters and work, I have no time for it). I was always scared to try
something because I kept comparing myself with other people. Tip number 2 –
practice makes perfect, do whatever you want to do. Tip number 3 – stop
comparing yourself with others, only compare yourself with your past self.
In 2018, I also explored and have
done some exciting things! I went to Brighton to shoot a video for
Birdeatsbaby. I would love to go to Brighton again, I love the atmosphere
there! I also saw a couple of artists – Steven Wilson, Ghost and Florence + The
Machine. I think that experiences are far better than material things because
they make beautiful memories.
In July, I have graduated my BSc
Psychology course. My graduation took place in St Albans cathedral. It was
beautiful. And of course, around that time I also started blogging. I’m glad I
did!
My most recent achievement was on
December 20th – I passed my driving theory test! I always kept
avoiding driving lessons because of my anxiety, but here I am – one step closer
to driving. Tip number 4 – don’t let your anxiety control you.
Goals for 2019
At the end of every year, I used to approach the new year as an opportunity to start again, afresh. I have similar mindset, however my goals are not as ambitious. I am trying to stay away from focusing completely on the numbers and social media (especially Instagram). It's all good and well to create ambitious goals, but not all of them will be attainable. To avoid disappointment, I just want to keep it simple in 2019.
Anyways, enough rambling. Here are some of my goals for 2019:
This is my 2018 in a nutshell and goals for the next year! Remember YOU guide your reality. Make these new 365 days count. Stop and think right now - what is your goal? what do YOU want to achieve next year? Keep seeking knowledge and stay humble.
How was 2018 for you?
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Great post! I'm new to blogging as well and also have a goal to make an affiliate sale! Good luck with everything! :)
ReplyDeleteThank you!! Best of luck :) You can do it!
DeleteYou have a great list here - good luck with them - I am sure you will do great at accomplishing everything on your list. Also- I love your tips #3 and 4!
ReplyDelete- Morgan from www.mommyaboveall.com
Thank you for reading the post :) Ah I'm glad! Hope you have a fab 2019
DeleteYour year sounds like it's been amazing. Congrats on graduating and good luck for the new year! :D I'd love to try pole fitness out! xx
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It sounds like you had such an amazing 2018 and I love your goals for 2019!
ReplyDeleteNicola
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Wow, sounds like 2018 was an interesting year for you. I hope 2019 is just as good, if not better all the best with your goals as well
ReplyDeletebethany lauren / www.quirksandqueries.com
Great list and good luck! You have to set goals and always strive to better yourself. That looks like what you're doing!
ReplyDeleteSounds like you had a great year! I especially loved your tip: "stop comparing yourself with others, only compare yourself with your past self." That's something I've been working on a lot over the past few years (I even talked about it in one of my recent YouTube videos.
ReplyDeleteI hope 2019 will be an amazing year for you! Keep learning, keep growing, keep taking care of yourself, be patient, and never give up! <3